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A UNIQUELY FEMININE INITIATION

You are the author
of your life.

A twelve-week cohort for eight women re-building in the quiet after a major life plot twist.

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The Origin

I was sat at the altar I built in my childhood bedroom, having just ended my 3.5 year relationship and moved back into my parent's home.

Beyond the grief and fear of my decision, I knew with unshakable faith that this was exactly where I was supposed to be. That somewhere along the way, I was living someone else's vision for my life... again.

Besides the daily duties of feeding myself and clocking in and out of work, there were no distractions between me getting to know who and what I wanted without the expectation of another. 

But I didn't know where to begin...

When the relationship ends, the move happens, or the title is stripped away, you are left with the raw material of a soul and the audacity to keep showing up to the life you are now building.

No formula, play book, map, or blueprint.

Until now.

Your guide

I built this map because I needed it first.

Hi, I'm Carly and I blew up my life in 2023 and lived to tell the tale. 

Through that choice, I learned that choosing heartbreak for the right reasons is the purest form of self-love I've ever gifted myself. 
And it took shape as the greatest initiation of my life (so far).

I believe that an un-lived life is worse than death. Ironically enough, a metaphorical death needs to happen in order to claim that new chapter for ourselves. I made that hard and necessary journey on my own, but you don't have to. 

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The Framework

The Five Devotions

Module 01

Devotion

Choosing what earns your attention before the world demands it.

Module 02

Emotions

Learning to sit in the discomfort without needing to fix anything.

Module 03

Embodiment

Moving from the conceptual mind into the feeling body.

Module 04

Desire

Uncovering the want beneath the should.

Module 05

Reclamation

The final integration. Taking the throne of your new life with quiet, unshakable authority.

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Artwork by Ed Binkley

⬆️ This is You.

You find yourself in the in-between of caterpillar and butterfly in a messy, organic goop literally called "imaginal cells".

You have the blueprint for your next iteration and the quiet ache you carry as you go through the motions of your day-to-day.

You need a pattern interrupt.

That's where Returning to Reverence comes in.


Is this your room?

This is for you if…

  • You know you're on the verge of a new chapter, but aren't sure how to land in it yet.
  • Everything in your day-to-day feels fine, but there's something off that you can't quite place.
  • You're still waiting for someone else's permission to live the life you want.
  • You're craving meaningful change in your relationship with yourself.
  • You want to be supported by women going through a similar chapter in life.

This is not for you if…

  • You're looking for a retreat or escape from your life.
  • You want transformation without discomfort.
  • You're looking for another self-improvement project.
  • You're waiting for your circumstances to change before you do.
  • You're unwilling to choose to take responsibility for your life and happiness.
What’s Included


01

Bi-weekly live gatherings

A live call every other week to discuss the module material ending with a Q+A session.

02

The Returning to Reverence Playbook

65+ pages of prompts, practices and resources to carry you well-beyond the end of the 12 weeks.

03

Daily devotional practice

The invitation to put yourself before anyone else. Selfish > Self-Abandon

04

An intimate group of like-hearted women 

Sharing and witnessing experiences from women in a similar chapter of life.

05

Between-session support

The best group chat you've ever been apart of via Telegram.

06

Lifetime access

The ability to revisit the material + practices whenever you need it next.

The room is small by design.

Eight seats. One cohort at a time. Closed when full or on September 20th, whichever comes first.

THE GUARANTEE

You show up to every live call and complete every workbook prompt and practice (without AI) and do not leave a changed woman, you get your money back.

Enrollment

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